inspirationforyourimagination:
HAHAHA SOOO TRUE never thought of it that way..
It’s not that we forget that there are other guys, it’s just that… those other 1.2 billion guys aren’t you. They can’t make me feel the same way I feel about you. They don’t make me giddy over good morning text messages, hearing your voice, I doubt I could spend hours on the phone with them and just talk about nothing without one of us getting bored. They wouldn’t deal with my insecurities the way that you do. They don’t make me feel special the way you do. They don’t make me feel like everything will be fine when it comes to us.
Love.
It’s happened.
I’ve reached the point of no return.
I’m head over heels in love with him.
I find myself extremely happy when talking to him, he gives me butterflies, he makes my heart feel like it’s flying away. And while all of this happens, he has the ability to make my heart sink, my gut to wrench, and my heart feel like it’s going to drop to my stomach.
I listen to sappy love songs now, my co-worker always asks why I’m so happy at work…
The conversation normally goes like this:
“Why are you so happy?”
Me - *Stupid grin* “I don’t know~”
“It’s because you’re talking to Louis, isn’t it?”
Me - *Continuous stupid grin*
Yep… I’ve become one of those people… the people that make you sick when you see happy they are because they love someone so much. Haha… e.o;
Are we together?
No.
His words when I asked what we were, “More than friends but not quite together yet”.
I know, people are thinking “The hell? How can you be so in love with him?” Blah blah blah. Honestly, I’d have to say that I’ve been in love with him for the better part of a year…
Haha…
I’ve never felt so strongly about anyone as I do about him.
It may be long distance, but I told him about a friend who’s marrying this guy she’s been dating for three years. He lives in Korea, she lives here.
They see each other whenever she can get time off from school and she stays for a month or so. He comes over here and visits her as well.
It may be trying at times, but like this picture I posted a few days ago says.
I told him it’ll be hard.
We don’t have to put a label on anything as long as I can just continue to love him.
Louis, I love you so much and I’m so extremely happy that you’re in my life.
I don’t know what I would do without you in it.
I love you. <3
You’re the best. Any flaws that you may have are completely over looked by how wonderful you are. <3
So…
There’s this guy, who is really good at putting his foot in his mouth.
=___=
My best friend (a beautiful girl I do declare) is going out with him, they were on the subject of weight loss, going to the gym, body image, etc…
Well, the dumby says to her that he’d be more attracted to her if she were thinner…
UGH!
Men!
He knows she’s had eating disorders in the past, so the fact that he said that boggles my mind.
Jesus.
A little advice for guys out there.
If you know your girlfriend has had eating disorders in the past, try to not talk about weight…
Every girl has body/image dysphoria and if they’ve had an eating disorder, it’s going to be 10xs worse.
The way my doctor said it was,
“Bulimia and Anorexia are mental/physical disorders and no matter what, it’ll always be with you. You may not practice it, but you’ll always have it.”
I think she also said something about therapy making it easier, but we’re not here for that. Kthx.
Anyways, fellas (and ladies), tread carefully around a girlfriend/lover/significant other when talking about weight… and if they’ve opened up to you and told you of any past eating problems… always keep that in mind…
Now excuse me while I do damage control.
Most of the time BOYS are good in keeping their FEELINGS when they LOVE someone.. BUT GIRLS are better in keeping their FEELINGS when they are HURTING too much because of someone.
This guy and I…
Are talking about this girl he likes. Says that it started to turn to love…
Hn… this is dredging up old, painful, memories that I’d rather not think about, but I guess it’s too late for that. Haha.
The best way to get over heart ache, for me, is to just laugh it off… pretend that it doesn’t bother you… oh, on the inside you’ll feel like shit, but… no one will know other than you. I don’t know about everyone out there, but I /hate/ when people who don’t know me well enough feel obligated to ask “What’s wrong?” “Is everything alright?” I’m just gonna say, “Yeah, everything’s great~”
If you don’t want to do that… write your thoughts and feelings down on a piece of paper and then burn it so you will never have to see it ever again… and no one can find it for blackmail… or ask you about it… Or, ya know… make a private blog entry that you only want your friends (if any of them have the same blog sites to go on…) to see. Or better yet, go to your best friend and just let it all out…
For you guys who don’t want to seem like pansies, do you have a best female friend that you’ve known for a while? One who won’t judge you? Just tell them everything… but only if you guys talk a lot… if you have a seemingly close female friend but you don’t really talk to eachother… then… go to the girl you talk to the most and you feel comfortable with. Haha.
I guess… I can’t really help a guy (seeing as I’m a female… despite my more… male… tendencies..) so… yep, that’s that. Now to spam you guys with more pictures! :Db
